I recently watched an intriguing documentary about Martha Stewart (it was SO GOOD) which sparked thoughts about the marketing of “perfectionist domesticity” as depicted above. Did Martha create an industry that adds stress to already overwhelmed parents? Am I contributing to the problem? Probably… But there’s something enjoyable about having a beautifully decorated home, and many find extreme joy in setting a table. We seem to be in an era of “family frat parties” where Easter has turned into “Eggs and Kegs”. We dine outdoors, and what used to be a room for crafting has now become the crafting shed for 12 kids. As an Enneagram 7, I prefer to be at my own party rather than working it. But we all find fulfillment in different ways, so if you’re someone who enjoys hosting dinner parties, here’s some inspiration for you.
For our Easter celebration of “Eggs and Kegs”, we host a multi-family potluck with a big egg hunt, pony keg (and wine), a store-bought honey-baked ham on Hawaiian rolls, accompanied by a robust mustard and pickle bar. The event takes place outdoors, with kids running around, using paper plates, and everyone contributing food to the potluck. I don’t bother decanting the mustards or labeling anything (and often forget to take photos because I’m too busy having fun). I usually decorate with vintage floral tablecloths, baskets, and pastel servingware, and adorn the space with Trader Joe’s tulips in various vases and jars. Although cleaning the house is a lot of work, I stop caring about its appearance once the first guest arrives, knowing it will soon become messy yet wonderful. (Hot Life Tip – keep expectations low and casual to avoid disappointment).
So why am I sharing this beautifully set table? It’s because I have fantastic partnerships that allow me to style my home differently and showcase inspirational ideas. It’s a delightful experience, and if I were a fan of dinner parties, I would purchase everything showcased here. We captured these photos for the blog while shooting a social media campaign for inspiration.
Placemats |
Napkins |
Dinner Plates |
Bowls |
Flatware |
Wine Glasses |
Water Glass |
Glass Striped Candlestick Holders |
Glass Bud Vases |
Floral Platter
All the items mentioned above are from Anthropologie, with some pieces being part of my collection for a while – such as the glassware and flatware. Standout pieces include the impactful placemats, the exquisite handblown Italian glass candleholders, the whimsical floral plates, and the charming floral platter. The colored wine glasses and tulip arrangements in pastel glass bud vases also add a touch of elegance to the table.
Perhaps this year, I’ll capture some iPhone shots of the mustard and pickle bar, including Miracle Whip, if our backyard isn’t still under construction. Overall, whether you love showcasing your best dishware and cooking a three-course Easter dinner or prefer a more laid-back approach like mine, the key is to do what brings you joy. To add a new touch to your table, consider exploring the options for pretty Spring/Easter/Sedar tabletop decor. Remember, a little can go a long way in adding a festive touch to your table setting.
Linens
Let’s begin with the easiest and most impactful element – table linens.